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A few posts back I talked about “Intelligent successful women and their dating challenges”, it got quite a bit of attention. At this point, we realize that there definitely is a problem, here is what we discovered.  While these women have spent a lot of time educating themselves or pursuing their career they somehow need to try to stay feminine, fit and must not talk about their accomplishments in front of men, if they wish to entice the opposite sex.  That’s a lot of responsibility to put on these women. We also discussed  that if a man was comfortable in his own skin and confident with himself, he should not be intimidated with a woman of equal intelligence and success.  The end result is, we all need to be responsible for ourselves, which is pretty much what I am always saying.
As most of you know I am a personal Matchmaker, as well as a blogger and co-host to an online radio show. I polled a large group of men, who are not my clients, about this issue and they told me that they would welcome a woman that was their equal, in this area. I am calling Bull…..  Are there really any nice single men that are secure enough in themselves to date these amazing women, if so where are they?   Is the issue really bigger than I am led to believe, by men that are not actually involved with the possibility of dating these women? I have approached a few single men specifically with this possibility in mind, but to date, I have yet to hear back from any of them. HMMMMMMM!!!!!!!  I have probably just irritated some of you men out there, Don’t you hate it when someone judges you without even knowing you? Case in point.
First off, let me tell you what these women bring to the table, (I am speaking about some of my amazing  female clients). Not only are they beautiful, but they are intelligent and I mean they are not just educated but can carry on a conversation, rather than just nodding and giggling about current affairs. They have usually put themselves through school and worked their butts off in order to achieve their current position and status. They are independent, that means that you will not have to pay off their credit cards, pay for their rent (they own their own homes). This also means they will not be clinging to you for dear life and financial support. This will obviously not appeal to those of you with the White Knight Syndrome.  They can and will want to travel, without you having to foot the entire bill. They are driven to explore all life has to offer, just like you and will actively participate in physical activities outdoors or indoors.
  They have learned to communicate and understand that anything worth having takes effort and are willing to make the commitment to building a relationship.
  My point at this time is that you need not fear these amazing women. They bring a lot to the table and if you spend a little bit of time getting to know them they may just impress the hell out of you, just like they did me. I feel very proud that I have some of the most amazing single professional and business women in Vancouver onboard and I am actively looking for some amazing men that are up for the challenge, trust me,  the rewards are well worth it. Think about it! Maybe you should consider these very valuable women instead of fearing them.
I welcome your comments and opinions, please remember if you expect to be posted here, you must be polite, reasonably intelligent, refrain from being verbally abusive and if you use profanity, you will be pulled.  Thanks.
This is a blatant call to all single intelligent good men that are up to the challenge, to step forward.  l have faith that you are out there, but then I am the eternal optimist. I hope to hear from you soon. matchmaker@match-works.com or 778-330-1204. My website is www.match-works.comÂ
P.S. One of my best matches, so far, is between a wonderful very successful woman and an equally wonderful man that is not yet at the same earning level. I am happy to attest that they are very happy and the relationship is going swimmingly.
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