Comments on: In the wake of Infidelity.

By: admin

admin — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 17:36:20 +0000

Thanks so much, if you have any particular areas that you would like me to discuss please let me know.

By: vancouverdating

vancouverdating — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 15:10:36 +0000

We all deserve to be trusted until we are proven wrong. Good for you, for realizing that it was that woman and her co-hort and not you or anyone else that was responsible for the affair. Going forward If you expect disaster, from your potential partners, that is exactly what you will create. We all need to have faith and think positive , with our eyes wide open of course
I can’t imagine how awful that must feel initially, I hope you never have to feel that betrayal again. Sounds like you are definitely on the right path.

By: Richard

Richard — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 14:40:15 +0000

Wow, first thing I see when I check out your blog is this.. how did you know? I think that I must tell you that while I totally with the following line…
“They blame their partners, society, alcohol, the other party, but seldom do they look at their own responsibility. ” This is exactly what happened with me..they were drunk on tequila one night and the rest is as they say history. Then I received a 4 page email telling me all of my negative traits as to why she “fell out of love” and had the affair.. Talk about not taking responsibility.
Anyway, not all people will come out jaded and know that trust is something that is given,not earned. If I meet someone for the first time I “must” believe that they are trustful and basically I give you the benefit of the doubt and it is now up to you to either show respect for that given trust or disrespect.
In any case, your comments on this are spot on and I couldn’t agree more with your blog. Great job!