Do you think that you are ready for love and a relationship? I know you saying of course, but are you really? When you look back at your past relationships do you know what went wrong, have you changed the way that you look at your potential partners and relationships. Maybe you have dated alot and found that they never really evolve into the relationships that you say that you want. Have you looked at what might be holding you back? If you are blaming your potential partners for everything, then you are probably not being realistic. As much as we may not want to look at our part, we have to stand back and look honestly (ouch) at our part. Damn, damn and double damn. 
Men and women do speak a different language and if you want more info on that see http://vancouverdating.match-works.com/index.php/2009/07/10/do-men-and-women-speak-the-same-language/ So what do we do about it, knowledge is the key! I like to arm myself with all the knowledge that I can and then you have to remember to put that knowledge into action. It is not enough to learn the lesson but you must live the lessons, or at least try something from a different angle. How many times have you used the same tactics in your dating and relating world only to get the same responses. “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result”. So maybe it’s time to try something different. As I said knowledge is the key.
There are many different workshops available to singles and couples, so how do you weed out and find the one that is right for you. Research a few different workshops, find one that covers an area that you think might want to improve on and make sure that the counsellor is someone that you feel comfortable with. I can personally recommend a few ladies that offer great workshops Diane Anderson and Kim Sarrasin. I have attached some information about them both below. Check them out!!!! Remember to attend with an open mind and your sense of humour intact. Have fun! 
Both Diane and Kim and wonderful and offer some very informative, fun, and helpful workshops for singles and couples looking to improve their Dating & or Relating lives. I highly recommend them both!
SEX, LOVE & BLISS Workshops
Diane Anderson is a Registered Clinical Counsellor and relationship specialist who helps singles and couples create the fabulous love lives they desire! Offering a fresh and effective counselling approach, fun and informative evening seminars, and exciting weekend workshops for singles and couples, Diane and her clinical associates help people to truly achieve “relationship brilliance.” Come to her next free evening seminar, Sex, Love…Bliss! to discover how you can bring your love life to the next level!
Diane Anderson & Associates [live link to http://www.DianeAndersonCounselling.com]
The Dating & Relating Weekend Workshop
Kim Sarrasin – Relationship Expert, Mentor, Speaker
One Day workshop in Vancouver on July 25th. It’s a Dating & Relating Workshop for Women, Learn how to understand, communicate and relate with men. This will be an all-female event where Kim will be revealing EVERYTHING that women need to know to attract good quality men around them. Even if a woman is in a relationship already there will be tons of valuable tips.
http://www.kimsarrasin.com/understandmen.html or call 604-742-0599
kim@DatingandRelating.ca www.DatingandRelating.ca
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True stuff. Relationships take experience (real-world as well as knowledge). There are so many people out there getting married ridiculously young, sometimes to their first serious partner and then wonder why they wind up divorcing!
I’m not saying those kind of relationships can’t work but seeing relationships as a process rather than a goal definitely helps make them more fulfilling. I don’t think my current relationship would be as successful as it is if I hadn’t had all the lessons from my previous ones!
Mentors do help though in all aspects of life and relationships are no different. I don’t know those people you recommend personally so I can’t vouch for that but if you wanted some recommendations of anyone in Europe I could probably help out.
Sam
http://www.sparklife.info