Recently I have had a lot of PR and alot people enquiring about my services. They enquire, are definitely interested and then they say maybe in the fall or winter. What are you waiting for people? I have learned that you never know what is around the corner. Do not put off something that is important to you, life is short, make the most of it. If you want someone in your life to share it with, do not make excuses, yes it is scary especially if you have been hurt. But honestly in today’s day and age if you are over the age of 20, chances are you have had your heart broken at least once or twice and you have not died.
I watched a friend years ago wait and make her new love in her life wait for years before committing to him. She was so worried about getting hurt again, because her first husband had left her. She finally got to the point where she actually let him in completely, got engaged and they were about to get married when she had a sudden brain aneurysm and died, just after her 40th birthday. He kept asking me why she had waited so long and wished that they could have spent the last few years together instead of apart, while she worked up her courage to take that leap again. I had no answer for him, especially because I knew how much she had loved him, he was right, it was a waste. I understand that time heals and that we need to take that time for ourselves to recover and gather our strength again, in order to take that leap, but how long does it take, really. Please keep in mind that not everyone is going to treat you the same way and just because your last relationship did not work, does not mean that the next one won’t.
I just recently found out that a friend of mine is dealing with leukemia and her partner is adamant about doing everything to save her. They have what all of us singles want, they love and appreciate each other. If god is willing she will be around for a very long time. But the threat is definitely there and menacing. I know that they would give anything to extend their time together.
Today while I was writing this post I caught part of the Rachel Ray show and she had a young widowed dad on that was blogging about his life. He thought he had it all, he fell in love in high school, she was perfect, they got married, got pregnant and within a few hours of his babies birth, his wife died suddenly. Now he spends his day raising his daughter alone and writing about it. How sad for this young man to loose the love of his life so early and tragically. The positive has been that through his blogging, thousands of people have helped him by offering support and advice to this overwhelmed new dad.
In just 27 hours, Matt Logelin experienced the most overwhelming joy as he and his wife Liz welcomed their new daughter, Madeline, followed by the most heartbreaking loss imaginable. “It went from my version of perfection to absolute hell,” says Matt, whose high school sweetheart died suddenly in the hospital of a pulmonary embolism. “We didn’t have that last five minutes,” he says. “My wife was dead. I mean, what the hell do I do? I didn’t know how to live without her.” click http://www.mattlogelin.com/ to follow Matt’s story.
If you are holding off from moving forward with that new relationship, why? I can’t tell you how frustrating it is too date someone that is still angry with their ex, they have walls up so high that no one can get around them. The end result is that you are giving too much power to the person that already hurt you and you are now the one hurting yourself and anyone else that may come into your life. The person you are mad at is your ex, not all women, so why are you giving away your power and your life. They sure don’t care, do they?
Life is short, deal with your issues, obviously, if you have some to deal with. If you are actually ready for real love , you need to open up all the doors and windows, put out the welcome mat and start socializing, without fear. Don’t wait till fall, winter or spring, till you have more money, you never know what is around the corner. No one ever died saying that they opened themselves up to love too much. Love makes the world go round and it is a proven fact that couples actually live longer than singles. As the saying goes “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all”. Life is good, grab it with both hands and make the best of it. I wish you all the love in the world. Be brave, it is well worth it! Do it NOW!!!!!! 
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